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生活中的5个球
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson, H$ l" \0 W t
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。8 F1 ?4 T" C# l' W
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你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。
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+ ^) c5 m8 ]# D' a你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。
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怎样才能做好?
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。8 }3 s9 V* ~$ B- V
( J6 E4 U. i3 x3 Q3 o) B) \! E2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。
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I# R0 ^- b N( f3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。2 k% Y& W( m" @
* ?2 `* A3 P1 b5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。1 r# P: C+ i( `, Z6 E/ J0 z, r
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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- z- W& S( d+ d8 I+ f- l10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。% g2 r ^. c6 V, h
8 \& C" I, i, R7 R2 _3 }5 x3 F11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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6 O9 f9 C" F- ^; E! w; `* j2 P12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。0 k' u# n- q8 A' p' p. X8 z$ r
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原文:& `' l0 w$ k' }
. o$ w' ~$ t1 O5 z: B( s% BFive Balls Of Life+ o9 ^/ Q7 W2 L# X4 u( c
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.) Y' ?$ X' n2 x& D8 R$ r
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:9 O, X7 Q* ~8 c0 M* X' B
# x* m( t5 l+ E! UImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air., J: t! {5 @$ z y: P: T
You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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; t y2 N4 n7 QYou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.( C! g0 ~. E8 P( A/ }$ Y' Q
They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.$ [4 X+ N, M- j% `" X
4 F: c, A) t5 r7 g& q; K# [2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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, d9 Z5 _0 _: K. L3 u) _3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless., t; t( M+ [4 d$ k* y6 r
8 G3 O: E9 M: y h4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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- g3 l( ^, r5 D: S5 w, U5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.6 R+ d, D4 @' N: w4 j
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.7 X6 G) x; u4 ~8 `2 N
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave./ E2 K4 i, p8 Y' X
2 Z& z& y' |+ b7 f+ D" M4 G8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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3 m0 j4 r0 {# Q: j4 c+ j2 B10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.
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