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生活中的5个球
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson+ s5 K7 j% f7 K P, d; `* m5 b
- W( _) T: a* \6 ^设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。4 y' q1 r- w" O3 J' {
" h+ E6 V% P' u( K3 J你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。
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1 K: L; @* I- t8 v! z B7 ^怎样才能做好?
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, _8 i% \. x' y* B) z, r' w$ l1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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( l: ^( @' y0 W2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。
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2 k7 H, m; V: u1 P7 N8 J5 H3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。1 I: y' K- Z- [* v1 J2 G9 H
7 t& c2 T5 q$ p+ c. v4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。: l" w# O6 _% Q2 @3 Q
# m* p* ?" ]3 `6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。" w9 X. N7 P% i$ n9 n3 l
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 $ } s' y; o6 S! \8 V
+ d7 P) \7 V x' M8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。6 {6 X R% V/ W& S: X. i6 S
6 b5 f" m: n/ [+ f9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。* n9 [, C7 e* t$ \4 E- X
/ D7 N* W- J& d9 ~10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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- U4 _$ a2 {/ d9 W+ K12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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原文:
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Five Balls Of Life& B9 v. J0 I X% ^9 N0 Q' K
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
) S* q( t- N& |4 u5 ]5 x: E7 hIt was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
( ?$ F3 J/ U1 ~3 h: [( |You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.6 ^, E; u- @7 {$ t
They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.: d5 u9 a& P8 i# ~- Y/ p! \
1 @0 ^) B. Y$ l. C4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.- A* C& d. u: X
K4 r3 N, G2 v8 H. S5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.* S6 A% P% C. q( Q) m
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.: z& ]) g7 @' Z+ R2 S/ L0 t
0 x1 w* o& z f/ X/ f9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.+ b/ O! N) P i) ^4 O, B
4 d0 q- f7 C$ c! m10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.' j: @( E) F. ]
& Q% x+ N9 v# U11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.3 C( W: U- ^' q! s% c' a
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.7 ]' o+ t$ A5 R$ K8 u+ g$ W
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